“What’s your favorite color?”
As adults, we typically do not ask each other this, but for kids, it is an especially important question.
My four-year-old daughter has a knack for both picking up on details about people and mentioning them in a positive way. She will notice if one of her fellow students is wearing a new shirt and say how much she likes it. She will compliment a teacher on her new haircut, telling her it looks nice. And when she colors a picture for someone, you’d better believe that it will have a lot of that person’s favorite color in it because that is one of the first questions she would have asked them.
Everyone appreciates it when someone else does a nice thing for them, but when that nice thing has been personalized, it makes it even more special.